A baby shower is a happy, lighthearted event and extremely entertaining for parents-to-be and their family and friends. It is a party or a celebration that can be organized either before the birth of a new baby or after the baby arrives. A best friend, a close family member or a co-worker of the mom-to-be typically arranges this party. Most guests bring gifts and money for the mother and the baby.
Only women attend a majority of the baby showers. Nevertheless, a small percentage of men also attend these parties or they have “daddy showers” of their own. Usually, baby showers are for the first child only, but some parents choose to have baby showers for all their babies.
Baby shower invitations should include information about the who, what, when and where of the event, as well as RSVP details and the couple’s registry information. As far as food and refreshments are concerned, it is best to consult with the mom-to-be regarding the menu, as this can be a seriously touchy time for her taste buds. Lastly, keep the shower short. Two to three hours is enough; otherwise, it could be quite taxing for the mom-to-be.
‘Non-traditional’ baby showers are celebrated with a special theme. It can be a tea party or a baby brunch with various themes related to babies. Surprise baby showers are wonderful and exciting, but sometimes they can be terribly awkward for the mom-to-be. One must carefully plan these surprise baby showers and see to every possible intricacies. He/she should be well versed with the tastes of the mom-to-be and take care of the minute details pertaining to decoration, food, ambience, music and so on.
The food planned for the baby shower should be healthy and nutritious for the pregnant woman. Some foods should be carefully cooked, while some others should be strictly avoided. Meat should be cooked very thoroughly, to avoid toxoplasmosis. Caffeine like chocolates and tea may have a certain risk and are best avoided. The soil of fruits and vegetables may contain toxoplasmosis; they should be washed thoroughly. Food that contains raw eggs, like homemade mayonnaise or ice cream must be avoided. Eggs must be cooked until the whites and yolks have become solid. Certain herbal teas should be avoided, if possible. Liver pate or sausage and liver contain too much vitamin A that could harm the baby. Due to certain risk factors certain fish, sushi and soft cheeses are usually off limit.
Although baby shower menu should reflect the theme, the time of day and the number of guests are equally important. It should be a celebration for the mom-to-be or the parents-to-be, her guests, and the host/hostess. Consider the special dietary needs of the mom-to-be and her guests along with the amount of time and room available for the shower. Low fat cooking recipes help the mom-to-be and her guests make healthy food choices. Baby shower cake with fun ideas will do double-duty as a centerpiece. Non-alcoholic punch and healthy salads could be the other main items. Finger foods are best served in such occasions, as they are easy to handle. The desserts should be served in individual pieces and on small doilies or muffin cups. It is better not to leave any cutting to your guests. It is best to avoid foods that are overly sticky or might melt too fast.